-         A guy’s sense of self is primarily defined through his ability to achieve results. They are motivated and attracted by success.

-         When a guy feels he can fulfill a girl, he feels inevitably more attracted to her.

-         When a girl shares her problems, a guy thinks he is making her feel better by offering solutions to fix it.

-         Guys relieve stress by going into their “caves” to figure out problem ALONE. They do need girls to go into their “caves” to help them feel better.

-         Guys hear unsolicited advice as critical and unloving, or worse, it makes him feel like a kid.

-         Guys don’t need to hear “I told you so…” when they made a mistake.

-         Guys don’t read girl’s mind. They are also not experts in ‘decoding’ hints. Girls will have to communicate explicitly their needs or wants to him.

-         A guy always assumes that if a girl is not asking for more, then he must be giving enough.

-         Girls can score many ‘bonus points’ with guys by forgiving their mistakes and being nice about them; the bigger the mistakes, the more points they get.

-         The basic needs of guys are to be trusted, be accepted and to feel appreciated for what he has done. They are more motivated to give when this basic need is met.